如果你不爱一个人,请放手,好让别人有机会爱她。
如果你爱的人放弃了你,请放开自己,好让自己有机会爱别人
有的东西你再喜欢也不会属於你的, 有的东西你再留恋也注定要放弃的。
人生中有许多种爱,但别让爱成为一种伤害。
有些缘分是注定要失去的, 有些缘分是永远都不会有好结果的。
爱一个人不一定要拥有,但拥有一个人就一定要好好的去爱他。

男人哭了,是因为他真的爱了;
女人哭了,是因为她真的放弃了。
如果真诚是一种伤害,我选择谎言;
如果谎言是一种伤害,我选则沉默;
如果沉默是一种伤害,我选择离开。
如果失去是苦 你怕不怕付出
如果迷乱是苦 你会不会选择结束
如果追求是苦 你会不会选择执迷不悟
如果分离是苦 你要向谁倾诉,
好多事情都是后来才看清楚, 好多事情当时一点也不觉得苦, 然而我已经找不到来时的路 。

有一种爱,明明是深爱,却说不出来.
有一种爱,明明想放弃,却无法放弃.
有一种爱,明知是煎熬,却又躱不开.
有一种爱,明知无前路.心却早已收不回来.

 

第一最好不相见,如此便可不相恋。
第二最好不相知,如此便可不相思。
第三最好不相伴,如此便可不相欠。
第四最好不相惜,如此便可不相忆。
第五最好不相爱,如此便可不相弃。
第六最好不相对,如此便可不相会。
第七最好不相误,如此便可不相负。
第八最好不相许,如此便可不相续。
第九最好不相依,如此便可不相偎。
第十最好不相遇,如此便可不相聚。
但曾相见便相知,相见何如不见时。
安得与君相诀绝,免教生死作相思。


这是一首由六世达赖喇嘛,仓央嘉措所写的。



仓央嘉措,公元1683 年生于藏南门隅地区一户信奉宁玛派佛教的农民家庭。15岁被选定为五世达赖的“转世灵童”, 9月自藏南到拉萨,途经朗卡子县时,以五世班禅罗桑益喜为师,剃发受戒,取法名罗桑仁钦仓央嘉措。10月25日,于拉萨布达拉宫举行坐床典礼,成为六世达赖喇嘛。学习佛学、天文历算、医学及文学等,对诗的造诣很深。通常转世灵童在五、六岁就已坐床成为活佛,而仓央嘉措已经14岁才开始作为一位法王的学习和生活。他的童年及少年时光是在民间无拘无束地度过的,突然间远离故乡、亲人,面对大量的经书和修行,身边只有僧侣,仓央嘉措的苦恼可想而知。仓央嘉措家中世代信奉宁玛派(红教)佛教,教规并不禁止僧徒娶妻生子。而达赖所属的格鲁派(黄教)佛教则严禁僧侣结婚成家、接近妇女。对于这种清规戒律,仓央嘉措难以接受。年轻胆大的他没有以教规来约束自己,屡屡“行为不检”、“不守戒规”。一天他微服出行,化名荡桑汪波到拉萨街头,结识了漂亮姑娘仁珍翁姆。难以隐藏心里的爱情,他写道:接受了她的爱,我却牺牲了佛缘。若毅然入山修行,又违背了她的心愿。 他最终选择了爱情。1703年,仓央嘉措回绝了五世班禅授的比丘戒。仓央嘉措到扎什伦布寺访问五世班禅时,正式向班禅回绝了他过去所受的沙弥戒。以后他改名化装常在拉萨的公园和居民中游玩,接触了许多平民,并来往仁珍翁姆家中。在这些日子里,他写出了大量优美动人的爱情诗歌。 这一时刻,西藏的政治矛盾已经极其尖锐。蒙古人在西藏的统治者拉藏汗桑为了取得对西藏的统治地位,从政治、宗教、经济上联合起西藏的主要僧侣和贵族,与藏王桑结嘉措展开了激烈的斗争。1705年7月,爆发了蒙藏两军之间的一场恶战。结果桑结嘉措被俘,不久被处死。拉藏汗向康熙皇帝进言仓央嘉措的种种“劣行”,借以皇帝诏,将仓央嘉措解送京师。关于仓央嘉措被黜后的命运有多种传闻:在解送京师的途中,行至青海湖(位于青海省海西藏族自治州)湖畔圆寂。一说病死,一说被杀,没留下尸体,时年仅25 岁。另一说法则是仓央嘉措行至青海湖后,于一个风雪夜失踪。后半生周游印度、尼泊尔、康藏、甘、青、蒙古等处,继续宏扬佛法。此外还另有一新的说法:他被解送至内地后,软禁于五台山,并在五台山圆寂

 

My celcom broadband package is RM68 nett for 384kbps per month...
Before you applying the celcom broadband package, make sure you check your area got provided 3G services or not. If not, your celcom broadband internet speed will never reach 384 kbps because no 3G. Do i answer your question?

 

time passing fast...

By 飞鸿踏雪泥

Time passing fast when i am happy,
Time passing slow when i am sad,

WHY my holiday is very short?
WHY i have to face so much challenges?
WHY assignment so many?
WHY i cannot achieved what i want?
WHY i have to endure even in worst situation?

I will do much better than now !!!

 

Although i suscribe celcom broadband basic package, but there is no 3G available in Taiping, so the speed just same or worse than normal dial up internet connection. However, when i stay in Malacca, the area provide 3G services, so the internet speed is 300 kbps ++ and sometimes more than 400 kbps. So disappointed with the services in Taiping. I really hope they can install and provide the 3G network services in Taiping. Hope this day come soon ...

 

The propaganda for this time Olympic is One World, One Dream. I personally like this propaganda because the dream brings hope to peoples. However, i cannot go to join the ceremony of Olympic in Bei Jing because it is too far for me who still pursuing studies at University. If i got chances, i will go to join the ceremony of Olympic.

The official website for Olympic in China is http://en.beijing2008.cn/

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Doing a web server

By 飞鸿踏雪泥

My new assignment is doing a new server in one month. We need to use Apache,IIS, MySQL and others related software. However, my friend recommend WAMPSERVER to me because this program combined web server and database characteristics. So, i just need to install one software in stead of two. With friends' guide, i finish doing my web server by modifying Joomla template in less than half an hour. Now, i feel so relax because can finish the assignment in a day. Anyway, i want to do extra effort on that, i will change the contents and publish it to the internet. Therefore, every surfer can view my site. So, now still in progress.

 

Yesterday, my friends that came from Johor wished to visit Malacca. They have told me the plan about 1 month ago. Therefore, victor and me borrowed friend's car and went to fetch them at the Ayeh Keroh toll. It was about 1115 when we fetched them.Then, we tried to take them look around our campus, UTeM landscape. After that, we recommend Chicken Ball Rice at Batu Berendam which is delicious to them because they were hungry. After filled up our stomach, we directly went to Malacca town and took them visit the St Paul Church, Red House Area and took many memorable photos.About 1500, we went to Dataran Pahlawan Mall to have some cool air because the weather was so hot. Then, we had our tea time at Wang Kok Restaurants. We did enjoy the drinks and foods at the moment.About 1700,we went to Jonker Street to let my friends saw through the speciality of the street. They were enjoy in windows shopping. Then, we went to eat Satay Celup at Capaitol which is famous in Malacca.However, we really had not enjoy our satay celup due to the time passed very fast. Due to road block, they nearly missed the last bus back to Johor. Fortunately, the bus havent set off when we reached Malacca Central.


I really appreaciate my friends' half day trip, hope they enjoy it !!

 

1st time cook...

By 飞鸿踏雪泥

Our lunch just now was very simple,it just a plate of scramble eggs and vegetables. My friend, HF and SJ cooked it. However, they are first time make the dishes by using electric stove, so the dishes may be not as good as they expected. Anyway, i do appreciate what they have done. Gambateh my friends ^^

Hoping next time will be better :)